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Bring me the boundary you can't hold. I'll hand you back the version you can.

A weekly column for accountants and bookkeepers on the conversations they've been avoiding. Built from real submissions. The fear behind the move, then the move itself.

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If you're great at boundaries, you're probably not my audience. The Reframe is for the rest of us.

what it is.

Built from real submissions.

Every issue starts with a real submission from a firm owner. The Reframe answers it. Names the fear, gives the script, does the math.

Form
A weekly column.
Tuesdays at 7:30 AM ET. Free. Unsubscribe any time.
Audience
Firm owners afraid of their clients.
Firm owners whose own firms are running them. The ones who know what needs to change and can't quite do it.
Method
Name the fear. Give the script.
A submission comes in. The reframe walks through the fear behind it, then the actual move. What to send, what to charge, what to say next.
Author
Still figuring it out.
Rebecca Driscoll, CPA. Built and sold a firm. Now in this work full-time. Her biggest challenge as a firm owner was holding boundaries with clients, with employees, with herself. If she'd been better at it, she might still own that firm.
the five fears.

Most submissions land in one of these.

Different surface, same root. The reframe names which one you're really in. Then walks the script, the math, or both.

01
Pricing

"I can't charge that."

The price increase that won't get sent. The proposal that closed too easily. Who am I to charge this?
02
Client list

"I can't fire them."

The client who's been overdue for years. The fee that's too low. The relationship you've outgrown but won't release.
03
Operations

"They prefer it the old way."

The portal you bought but won't enforce. The software they won't switch to. The deadline that keeps slipping.
04
Communication

"I have to soften it."

The six-paragraph apology. The "just one quick thing." The over-explained email that should have been three sentences.
05
Life

"I have to be available."

The kid's game missed. The vacation not taken. The boundary against your own time that never gets held.
the thesis.

The boundary is the service.

Raise the price. They pay it. Hold the deadline. They meet it.
The fear almost never plays out.
submit.

Bring me the one you can't hold.

A real situation, in your own words. The fear behind it, not just the mechanics. The form takes about five minutes. I read every one.

A few questions. That's it. Anonymous by default. Identifying details get changed if your submission becomes a column.
where this leads.

When the script needs hands on it.

These exist for the people who want the work done with them, not just to read about it.

I write what I wish I'd read when I owned a firm.

When I owned my firm, the hard conversations I avoided made running it harder than it needed to be. Hard enough that I eventually sold and started doing this work full-time instead. The truth is, I knew helping firm owners was the work I wanted to be doing while I was still in my own practice. Admitting I didn't actually want to be a firm owner anymore was its own kind of boundary work.

If I'd been better at the boundary stuff, I might still own that firm.

I'm still working on the rest of it. In my advisory practice. In real time. The Reframe is the work I'm doing in the open.

If you've never struggled with this. If you've always charged what you're worth, fired the wrong-fit clients, said no without flinching. You're probably not my audience. The Reframe is for the rest of us.

— Rebecca

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